It was 2 years ago, right about this time of year. I was 70# overweight, high blood pressure and noticing that my erections did not last after I blew my load like they did in the past. I had always relied on this ability to see to it that my wife was satisfied. Although my wife was always an easy cummer so was I and half the time I finished first. Had it not been for my previous abilities she would have been left frustrated too much of the time.

Searching for a solution to my weakening abilities I looked into and tried viagra. It worked great. When my wife found the bottle she did what most wives would do and assumed it was her fault that she didn't arouse me any more like she used to. Of course that was not the case. I reassured her that this was my problem, probably related to my overweight and hypertension.

I did use the viagra on an occasional basis on the sly and I do like those super hard erections, I occasionally still do use it just for fun.

Since using viagra seemed to bother her psychologically I seached for another natural solution. I found the usual herbs, but also found jelqing which in addition to better erections and more ejaculatory control promised a larger penis. Well I didn't expect it to work for penis enlargement having swallowed the usual medicine orhtodoxy that it can' be done and size doesnt matter anyway. I got the information from various sources including the old exboard peforums. on 12/10/2001 I took measurements of length flaccid stretch bone pressed and erect bone pressed, didn't bother about girth measurements although I guestimated what they were at the start later.

Stealth PE

Being a fat guy that was loosing weight my gains were never particularly noticable visually. I avoided questions about discoloration by lovemaking in the dark or by candlelight (the wife loved the candlelight stuff anyway).
I did mainly Penis-Health dry jelq but I would use a little lube mainly to avoid chafing.
My favorite during this time was cococare cocoa butter stick. Easy to conceal, smells like chocolate sort of. I would peice meal my total # of jelqs throughout the day. For the stretches I would either use a square of toilet paper or a surgical glove as a grip aid, but I found that these dried my coronal ridge out too much so I went to talcum or rosin bag. I continued to stealth PE for nearly a year before I let the wife in on my secret gaining 1.625 in length and 0.500 in girth during that time. If you must stealth PE let me tell ya that stetch and dry jelq is the way to go (its the cheapest way too!!!).

Sex benefits I noted

When I got to a little over 7" bpel. I noticed that the wife seemed much more approachable for sex overall and initiated much more of the time. I postulated that I must be hitting areas that I hadn't been able to before and the orgasms were more intense and pleasurable for her hence the increased interest.

After reading up a bit I decided that I was getting to the cul de sac area at times since I had noticed that the cervix would slide over the head of my dick at times - when it did orgasms ensued shortly therafter for wifey. Over time I noted an increase in the frequency of sex with my wife from about 10-11 per 26 day cycle to 13 or 14.

It was when I got to 7.5 bpel that I learned that the wife was haveing some "discomfort" from time to time during sex. The "discomfort" however never resulted in her reducing her interest, in fact if any thing her interest continued to steadily increase. None-the-less I ended up spending 3 or 4 months doing Penis-Health.com exercises or on a PE vacation till she seemed to have accomadated to the new length. I did this because I felt that PE should enhance pleasure for her, not just be an ego booster for me. I definitely got the benefits of better erections, I also got a bigger dick, a more sastisfied spouse and a good deal more sex in the bargain.

Telling the wife.

After I was confident that she was accomadating my new size I decided to go for another 1/2" in length and whatever girth came along with that. It wasn't long after I resumed PE that I had read a post from a member that related how he got communication about sex issues going with his wife through email. Each taking turns to ask each other questions, pledging total honesty in the responses. Not too long after, I found an opportunity to suggest this to the wife for us. She agreed. In our exchange I brought up the issue of penis size and how much bigger she would like me to be.

(Its good to frame the question expecting a positive response - it gives them permission to say how much bigger they would like it and gives them the impression that you already accept that fact). I was relieved to find out she "wouldn't mind anothe inch in length and another quarter inch across".
So I found out that my PE days were not over by any stretch. At this point I took the risk of telling her about PE and my gains to that date (+1.625x0.5). I asked her for her support and time and privacy to do my exercises. I also explained that my initial motives were for erectile issues (which was true). Her reaction was nothing but positive so far. She seemed grateful that I felt comfortable to let her in on this. she also seemed a little turned on by the whole scene. (sex is now up since telling her to 15-16 days per 26 day cycle). Telling the wife is a very personal decision and is not right for all guys and situations. If you can do it a great benefit follows.